Of keepers
27Jan09

So I have the flu.

Sweating through layers and layers of clothes one minute, totally unable to get warm the next. Which sucks. A lot. Especially since the guy mentioned in the previous post is in town (yay!) for a few days (yes, it's a sort of long-distance-ish thing, but we deal with that...).

He called when he arrived this afternoon. He knew I was sick. He knew I had the flu. I told him I would be horrible company. I told him I was quite possibly contagious (I don't know, maybe I am?!).

And yet he came over anyway. Granted, only for about 45 mins - he had tickets to the hockey game tonight - but he showed up. I wasn't quite at my unwashed worst, but close to it...

And he still wants to hang out?! He still wants to spend time with me later this week?!

Ladies and gentlemen, we may have a keeper.
Of new beginnings
03 Jan 08

So this survey materialized on facebook on about Dec 30, and I was just too lazy to do it there, so...

1) Was 2008 a good year for you?
Yeah... It started out pretty gloomily, but slowly improved, and the last 5 months of the year were the awesomest five months I've had in a long time - new experiences all around.

2) What was your favorite moment of the year?
Tough to say. Probably hearing that I'd gotten the new job. Freedom!

3) What was your least favorite moment of the year?
I'll go with slippinging down the stairs at Grandin LRT station and straining ligaments in my wrist. It's still not totally back to normal, and may not be for another month.

4) Where were you when 2008 began?
At Bonobo's. I left shortly after midnight.

5) Who were you with?
A whole bunch of my awesome friends from FEP.

6) Where will you be when 2008 ends?
I was hoping to be at Beans' with a bunch of friends and such, but that fell through, so I ended up on my couch watching CBC most of the night.

7) Who will you be with when 2008 ends?
I was all by myself. *sigh*

8) Did you keep your new years resolution of 2008?
I think I'd made a point of not making any. However, towards September I decided that with the new job I was going to try and get a bit healthier - so I joined the gym at work. It's working! I feel way better these days, and people keep telling me I look better, so...

9) Do you have a new years resolution for 2009?
Only to try and be more open to opportunities, even if they scare me.

10) Did you fall in love in 2008?
I don't think so. Not yet, anyway. But I did find myself someone that seems to be interested in me, and I'm interested in him, and things are going so well I'm wondering when they're going to go wrong *knock wood*. This ties into Question 9, really.

11) If yes, with who?
It's a guy. We'll leave it at that.

12) If yes, do they know?
Yup. Finally. Although it's not because I overcame my fear, it's 'cuz he made the approach.

13) Are you still in love with them?
See question 10.

14) Do you regret it?
Not so far *knock wood*

15) Did you breakup with anyone in 2008?
Nope.

16) Did you make any new friends in 2008?
Probably, but I think most of the "new" friends I actually made in 2007 or 2006.

17) Who are your favorite new friends?
Why rank? What a load of crap.

18) What was your favorite month of 2008?
Probably August. I did things I'd never done before, went places I'd never been before, and actually took some time off work.

19) Did you travel outside of Canada in 2008?
Yup. To San Francisco.

20) How many different places did you travel to in 2008?
outside the country - 1; inside the country - 5 places, some multiple times

21) Did you lose anybody close to you in 2008?
Thank goodness, no.

22) Did you miss anybody in the past year?
Of course. I've lots of special people in distant places.

23) What was your favorite movie that you saw in 2008?
Good question. It was obviously so very amazing that I don't remember.

24) What was your favorite song from 2008?
Cemeteries of London, by Coldplay... No One's Gonna Love You by Band of Horses...

25) What was your favorite record(s) from 2008?
In Rainbows, by radiohead

26) How many concerts did you see in 2008?
1. And it was awesome. Radiohead in San Francisco.

27) Did you have a favorite concert in 2008?
See above.

28) did you drink a lot of alcohol in 2008?
Actually, since I started the new job, I've been drinking more for networking-ish purposes - everyone in government seems to think that hanging out after work involves booze. :)

29) did you do a lot of drugs in 2008?
More than usual - but nothing illegal. I had some fun painkillers due to various things.

30) How many people did you sleep with in 2008?
Not the sort of question I'm willing to answer publicly, I'm afraid.

31) Did you do anything you are ashamed of this year?
Not ashamed of. I was certainly embarrassed after falling down the stairs, though.

33) What was the worst lie someone told you in 2008?
There was nothing so obviously bad and painful that it sticks out, thank goodness.

34) Did you treat somebody badly in 2008?
At work, I'm sure I did. Likely after they were assholes to me first.

35) Did somebody treat you badly in 2008?
At work, all the time. I don't know what makes people think they can walk into an office and treat government employees that way... oh, right, it's "I pay your salary, so you'd better..." syndrom.

36) How much money did you spend in 2008?
Not as much as I made. I've gone from being flat broke two years ago to actually having some decent savings.

37) What was your proudest moment of 2008?
Getting the new job.

38) What was your most embarrassing moment of 2008?
More than likely falling down the stairs at Grandin LRT station. Fortunately there was only one anonymous witness.

39) If you could go back in time to any moment of 2008 and change something, what would it be?
Not a big fan of the idea of going back and changing the past, 'cuz you never know what else one little action might affect, and the end of 2008 was pretty awesome for me.

40) What are your plans for 2009?
Continuing to do the best I can at my job, my personal life, etc. That's about it really. We'll see where it goes from there.